There are many situations in life that you sometimes find yourself in, and you just do not know how to handle things. being in school can give you an opportunity of a life time, a door open for life changing results, then out of the blue your life is redirected or more things are added to your already overwhelmed life. What do you do in a position like that do you remove the obstacles that are tough? Do you continue in the direction in which you were headed? Yes, they are questions that have no true answer or open guide book to what instructions you should follow. However some people play out their lives just like it was written out on a piece of paper, living life as a fairytale so unreal, a life of make believe, not in tune with reality.